The 5 Spheres Helps Me Be The Best Girl Dad I Can Be

By Noel Scott

Being a girl dad is an incredible privilege and a responsibility that I cherish every day. When I first found out that I was going to have a daughter, I was filled with a range of emotions. As a man and athlete, I had always envisioned myself having a son who I could play sports with and share other traditionally masculine activities with. However, the moment I knew I was having a girl, I knew that my life was about to change in the best possible way.

One of the things that being a girl dad has taught me is the importance of being a role model. As a father, I know that my daughter Nyeema is watching my every move, and I want to make sure that I am setting a positive example for her. I want her to grow up seeing that it is possible for women to achieve anything they set their minds to, and I want her to know that she can count on me to support her in all of her endeavors.

Another thing that being a girl dad has taught me is the value of empathy and emotional intelligence. Girls are often socialized to be more in touch with their emotions and to communicate their feelings more openly. As a father, I have had to learn how to be more attuned to Nyeema’s emotional needs and to create a safe and supportive space for her to express herself. This has helped me to become a more empathetic and compassionate person overall.

Being a girl dad has also given me a new appreciation for the power of female relationships. Watching Nyeema grow up and form close bonds with her mother, aunts, grandmother, and other female relatives has been a beautiful thing to witness. As a man, I think it is important for me to recognize the unique experiences and challenges that women face and to do what I can to support and uplift the women in my life.

Of course, being a girl dad is not always easy. Like any parent, I worry about Nyeema’s safety, well-being, and future. I know that as she gets older, there will be more complex issues and challenges that she will face, and I want to do everything in my power to prepare her for them.

But despite the challenges, being a girl dad is one of the greatest joys of my life. Watching Nyeema grow, learn, and explore the world around her is a constant source of wonder and amazement. I am grateful for the privilege to be her father and to help her become the best version of herself that she can be. I confidently rely on The 5 Spheres to do just that!

In a world that can be harsh and unforgiving to girls and women, I feel an immense responsibility to help Nyeema develop the tools and skills she needs to navigate it with grace and confidence. Whether that means teaching her self-defense techniques, encouraging her to pursue her passions and interests, or simply being there to listen and support her, I am committed to doing whatever it takes to help her succeed in all her life’s spheres.

Ultimately, being a girl dad is about recognizing the unique strengths and challenges that come with raising a daughter and doing everything in my power to support and empower her. It is an ongoing journey, and with the 5 Spheres, I feel like I have the roadmap! As a girl dad, I am honored and ready for anything life may throw our way. I hope Nyeema knows I’m doing all that I can for her.